Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Born in 1920's

This past Monday was my uncle’s dad’s 90th birthday. I am pretty sure ninety is a big milestone in any culture, but in Asian more specifically Chinese culture we celebrate through a gathering of people and dinner (maybe a little show on the side). Dinner was set at a private room in a Cantonese restaurant on Gravey and Atlantic. There was a collection of people from family members to close friends. Although I am related via marriage through my aunt, we are very close to my uncle’s side of the family and they got a BIG family. I mean on my mom side there are six aunts and one uncle but my uncle is one of eleven and one of the eleven has seven kids. When we were kids I always felt bad for my cousin, Johanna because she had to memorize hundreds of names and faces at every family event but she likes the attention so it turned out well for her.

Being at the event I got reminded a bit of my childhood and made me realize just how old I have become now. In Asian cultured your always taught to give the up most respect to your elders so we always celebrated Johanna’s grandparents birthday and there’s always get together on the holidays like Christmas and thanksgiving. More importantly as a kid I was living with Johanna’s family and frequented these festivities, but once I went to college and moved back living with my mom I totally forgot about these Wei clan events.


So Monday gave me a jolt back to my childhood and watching the little grandkids now reminds me when I was in their shoes. Time fly’s and part of me wonders when I get older will my life be like this? Will I be too Americanized to have long life peaches? What will my family be like? These can only be answered through time. Everyone seemed so happy, and its rare AND difficult to get everyone together at one place. I don’t know why I am blogging about this, but as much as we fight with our family members at the end of the day, bloods thicker than water and family’s all we got.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Can EX's be friends

Anyone who has had a girlfriend or a significant other know what it is like sharing their lives together, but what happens when the relationship sours and the two of you are no longer together? Depending on what caused the break up people react different. Usually if someone cheated or the relationship got ugly, people don't want to stay in contact. From personal experience I found that to be the easiest for a clean break up. You go on with your separate lives never having to see each other ever again, but the con of that scenario are all those lost memories of time spent with that person, all the good and bad times but that could be a good thing(depending on how good you were towards the other person).

On the other hand if it was a mutual drama free break up people are more open to staying together as friends. I was never one for staying as friends because those feelings whether your together or not, are still there. You still have reactions left over from the relationship, maybe still a little possessive and just little thing that have to change from BF and GF to friends. Now that being said I tried it and didn't work out too well for various reasons. She wanted to be good friends not just friends but I felt being taken advantage of and she thought I was annoying. Eventually it snowballed into a string a fights and now we are no longer speaking. Doesn't matter friend, ex lovers, what ever label you want to put it there are going to be jealousy problems. I was perhaps a little too into her private life, that what mean that its hard going from BF and GF to friends, because while you were in the relationship you told each other everything and now there are issues that are the elephants in the room you and to talk about them but you know it might be awkward. A bit of topic here but I am a cancer so I am naturally shy at first but once you get to know me and I get comfortable with you I open up alot. People who I am comfortable with I am a very straight with them and I don't beat around the bush, so naturally I asked her some question that I thought was ok.....not smart... but we were good enough friends to talk about, perhaps to draw the line that we are friends and no longer together. The question being has she hooked up with anyone since we broke up? and this was 4-5 months since we broke up. She didn't want to answer and from that it went from a small question into a big problem because I was very open to her and if it was vice versa I would have answered without a second thought. Now I know it might seem like I was not over her but thats not the case. Its difficult seeing the other person happy regardless if your over the relationship or not. People want to WIN the break(reference to How I Met Your Mother)so jealous is going to occur not because of feeling for the person but your own personal insecurities. Now back to the situation, so I felt like as good friends I wouldn't keep anything from you and you shouldn't keep anything from me. I thought that would be fair since I was honest and open with her. She felt it was none of my business which is true but i was treating her like one of my good friends. It wasn't that she possibly hooked up with someone but how she went around and not answering the question, thats what really ticked me off. Every case has it complications, someone always gets hurt one way or another. which is a reason why EX's as friends is not a good idea.

I could go on for pages on this topic but to close it up, its hard enough for guys and girls to be friends(thats a whole other topic for another time) But as EX's I think its possible to be friends but not good friends. Of course I am generalizing here there're always exceptions, some cases it does work but I think people are better of being just surface level friends, maybe FB friends but thats about it. Even if it works out then when you move on to your next relationship what happens? Your new love is going to have problems that your so close to your EX and then your in a tough position between your new relationship and you old one. After dating a while we know how to push each other buttons and sometimes don't give the other person the respect they deserve because we know we can get away with it. If you insist on becoming friends please respect each other, there are already so many problems in life you don't want to go out creating more. Although its hard throwing away all those memories, the truth is your cling on the past and having a hard time letting go. I would love for comments and your opinions, maybe some stories as well, take care!

Monday, January 31, 2011

New Page

So this blog was created because of a class I had in college. Actually it was two classes, both by David Silver, awesome teacher btw but most ppl at USF know that already. Time to get to the point of this post, due to recent events thats has occurred in my life, I will be transforming this blog into a personal outlet. I will be talking about sports, college, relationships, whatever that comes to mind. I appreciate any follower that actually care for my opinion, and feel free the comment and share your thoughts as well in the comments.

Friday, May 7, 2010

Food and Culture

Dumpling / Jiǎozi 餃子

My Background

For those who don’t know my ethic background, I am full Chinese. My mother is from northeastern china and was raised in South Korea. My dad is from Taiwan but his family originated from northern China as well. Both my parents’ families are from Shan Dong, (on a side note) which is where Confucius is from. In Chinese culture food is an essential part of where you’re from. Because geographically, China is so large that different regions are known for their different dishes and cuisine styles. This is kind of like barbequing in America, where Texan specializes in a dry rub with no sauce, North Carolina has vinegar-based sauces, and Memphis generally uses a sweeter sauce base. Chinese food is too broad of a category, so first I am going to separated it into two categories: rice and flour. Then flour, which makes up your noodles, dumplings, and buns, can be further divided into two sections, raised and not raised. Southern China is generally known, as rice eaters while northern china prefer their flour-based foods.

As I was doing my research I have found that every culture has its version of the dumpling. The Polish have their pirogues and the Italians got the raviolis. I am not going to argue who copied the idea or which dish came first but Chinese dumplings go as far back as China’s history. The dumpling or Jiǎozi has an exterior of thinly rolled dough; the inside is filled with ground meat and vegetables. The combinations are endless, it can be filled with fish, eggs, chives, anything to the hearts desire. Dumplings can be enjoyed any time of the year but what separates Chinese dumplings from other cultures are that Chinese dumplings are a necessity during Chinese New Year and has special meaning to the people that eat them.

Chinese New Year

Before this gets into dumplings, I must explain Chinese New Year. Chinese New Year is determined by the lunar calendar. It usually occurs between late January and mid February. When it comes to Chinese culture, everything symbolizes something, from the food you eat to the clothes you wear. To understand the importance of Chinese New Year, in my opinion the equivalent American holiday would be Christmas, Thanksgiving and New Year combined together. It combines the food aspect of Thanksgiving with the mentality of New Year sprinkled with the spirituality of Christmas.

Celebrating Chinese New Year is as old as documentation goes, which is about five thousand years. Going as far back as I can remember we always celebrated Chinese New Year. There are many versions of the origins of Chinese New Year but a book titled Chinese New Year by Alice Flanagan, explains a common version. “…people painted the doors of their houses red. They built fires and set off firecrackers until the beast ran away.” (Flanagan) The beast is called Nian, which in Chinese is translated to year. To sum up the story the beast would terrorize the farmers every year until the farmers found the beast’s weakness. Nian was scared of loud noises and the color red, thus why people set off firecrackers and color/dress everything in red during Chinese New Year. That’s a cute story but you might be wondering how food gets incorporated into this tradition. Well, before communist China, the majority of the populations were farmers. Not only were they farmers but their fathers were farmers, and so were their grandfathers and so on so forth. “Farmers started the holiday in China to mark the end of winter and the beginning of spring.” (Flanagan) In essence Chinese New Year was an indication to plant your spring crops. This marked a new year because you survived another winter. This meant a new beginning and hopefully the coming year will be just as good if not better.

Every New Year begins with cleaning. There is a saying in Chinese that falls somewhere along the lines of “if you don’t get rid of the old, the new will never come.” So you clean everything and literally sweep the dust out your front door. You dress in new clothes, which represents a new start. You want to bring good fortune to your family and have the sprits in your favor so that in the future when the new clothes get old, you will able to get newer ones. Now, before you eat a single bite of your food, you are to pay homage to all your ancestors. Culturally, Chinese people are very family oriented and the family name is very important, almost more important than anything else. Explained to me by my mother and participating in the ritual my whole life, you first set out empty seats with food, fruits and alcohol. These foods are top quality, because you don’t want to offend the dead by serving them anything that you wouldn’t want to eat yourself. You don’t want to offend the spirits or they will haunt you. The table setting is usually by a window or some type of opening for the sprits to gain access. Empty bowls of uncooked rice are set at each spot and the family members are to light incense and say a prayer that invite the spirits to enjoy the food and watch over the family. Then, incense is stabbed into the bowl of rice. This is also why it’s very rude to stab your chopsticks vertically into your rice bowl. Now the living members of the family may eat. This process is a way of bringing the past to the present. So it’s not just eating with your uncle Steve, but also with the members of your family that have passed to the other side, like your grandma or your great-great grandfather. Everyone that is in your family tree comes together to enjoy a meal together. Dinner is always enjoyed at (or just before) midnight on New Years Eve and it’s a northern Chinese tradition to eat dumplings.

Red envelopes, which are stuffed with money, are distributed upon greeting but sometimes it’s done after dinner. Elders and people who are married are to prepare red envelopes for single members of the family and people who are younger. The amount varies but people like to give amounts involving the number “eight” because in Chinese, it rhymes with the word for “striking it rich”.

Food

Before I get into the symbols and meanings behind dumplings, I want to explain that all foods have meaning in Chinese culture. When they are eaten on Chinese New Year, you bet there’s a story behind it or at least a supposed perk. Two examples of these symbol-ridden foods I can give are noodles and fish. For the northern Chinese people it is customary to eat noodles on your birthday. Noodles (Chang Shou Mien, or Long Life Noodle) can be consumed during Chinese New Years as well but it is not a crucial dish. Long noodle is the symbol of longevity in China, so that youngsters or seniors all will have a bowl of Long Life Noodle to expect a healthy life.” (Chinese food and culture) Fish, on the other hand, is a must have on the dinner table. Fish is always served to symbolize prosperity and wealth accumulation in the New Year's Eve.” (Chinese food and culture) In Chinese, fish and “having extra” (as in prosperity) are homophones. There’s a Chinese proverb, “prosper every year” (nian nian you yu) that sounds like (and thus interpreted as) “fish every year” (also nian nian you yu). Therefore, when you are eating the fish, you are eating your prosperity for the coming year. If you don’t eat it, then you might have a difficult time ahead of you or other people might steal your luck.

Dumplings

Finally we are going to dive into the topic of dumplings. As stated earlier, dumplings are versatile; they can be filled with anything imaginable. However, when it comes to Chinese New Year, dumplings are traditionally served with pork. There are a couple of methods to cook dumplings. You can boil, steam or pan-fry them (although pan frying is commonly used for heating up left over dumplings). In the north, the dumplings are boiled and the water used to boil the dumplings makes a dumpling soup to be enjoyed after the main meal. The dumpling soup doesn’t have much taste; it’s primarily just flour water. It is not quite a dessert (that is served also) but more for cleansing the digestive tract, like how tea is served after meals sometimes.

My mother explained to me that dumplings represent yuanbao, which were gold or silver nuggets that are a half moon shape or boat shaped. A yuanbao is a small metal ingot that was used in ancient China as money. Being made out of silver or gold, the value was determined by weight in taels, which is a weight measurement, part of the Chinese system of weights and currency.“ (Chinese Customs) Therefore, part of the cultural belief in eating dumpling is to bring good luck and fortune to you for the coming year, just like eating fish. This, of course, is one of many myths regarding the origins of dumplings. Another common myth relates dumplings to a medical story in ancient China. Once upon a time, during a particularly difficult and cold winter, there was widespread poverty and disease. Many villagers were severely frostbitten due to lack of warm clothing or adequate shelter. Their ears were exposed and were rotting and falling off. A healer/doctor created a remedy under the commission of the local officials and distributed Chinese herbal medicines wrapped with meat and cooked in soup.

Recipe

Here is a recipe if you want to make them yourself. This version is a bit different in that they steam instead of boil the dumplings and substitute the Chinese cabbage for chives: http://allrecipes.com/recipe/pork-dumplings/detail.aspx.

The skin is sold at any regular Chinese supermarket, but if you want to make your own, it’s simply a mixture of water and flour. Here is a video of an Asian mother working the dough and making the skins. For vegetarian dumplings, a common recipe for the filling uses chives and fried eggs (sometimes also chopped up vermicelli or mushrooms). Today, there are restaurants in northern China that specializes in dumplings (with names such as “Jiao Zi Wang, or Dumpling King) with a full menu of different types of fillings to cater to modern tastes. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOXWSMlSq98

Relating it back to me:

The foods that we eat are a good indication of the culture and geographical region that you and your family came from. The Chinese culture instills values that are passed from parent to child. Every dish has a myth or story behind it. Although I have lived in America for most of my life, I have spent some time in Asia. Going to school in Taiwan from second to fourth grade showed the practices of the culture first hand. Instead of watching just my family participating in Chinese traditions, I see whole cities celebrating the occasion. Dumplings are a delicious food item but it has tons and meaning and a rich history. I don’t want to become someone who doesn’t know his or her own culture. These stories and traditions will be passed onto my kids, and their kids for generations to come. Through the ages some of the meaning is lost and not everything will be passed on, but as long as the core and spirit is there, that is what’s important. In America there seems to be a need to identify yourself, even at a young age: the class clown, the popular kid or the weirdo. Because America is a melting pot of cultures, people hold on to their roots to give a sense of identity and past. For example, in The Meaning of Food by Patricia Harris, David Lyon and Sue Mclaughlin, the Makah people were a community centered on whale hunting. After hunting whales to near extinction, the Makah decided to give up whale hunting. When the grey whale rebounded back to healthy numbers in the 1990’s, generations of Makah people have lived without ever hunting a whale. While the traditions were kept in song and dance, there was no one with first hand experience of hunting whales. However, the Makah still set out to hunt their first whale in seventy years. “Whale meat connects us with our grandparents and our great-grandparents” says Bowechop. “It’s not just about food and it’s not just about spiritual strength and it’s not just about culture. It’s really about the connection of all of those.” (Harris) I agree with Bowechop. Participating in these traditions is something bigger than you and I. To eat dumplings that your grandfather and ancestors had is neat. Knowing that at the some point in their lives, though the setting might be different, you all enjoyed the same dumpling over time is a remarkable concept.


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Saturday, April 17, 2010

Lunch from the garden


Marco and I decided to make Portobello mushroom sandwiches for our lunch project.

First we started out with homemade rosemary bread. I followed the same steps as the previous blog post but added in rosemary while keening the dough.

Marco went to the farmers market on Wednesday and picked up some Portobello mushrooms. They were marinated over night and roasted Friday morning.

We collected a wide selection of lettuces from the garden as well as some arugula from our plot and green onions Thursday afternoon.

Here’s the recipe:

Ingredients:

- Large Portobello mushrooms

- Olive Oil

- Balsamic Vinegar

- Mixed lettuces, arugula and green onion

Directions:

Wash the mushrooms and cut off the stem. Cut the cap of the mushroom into 5 to 6 long slices. Coat in olive oil and balsamic vinegar ( 2 parts olive oil, 1 part vinegar). Toss mushrooms around in the oil and vinegar to coat evenly. Let it sit in the refrigerator overnight.

Roast the mushrooms in oven at 350 F for 6 to 7 minutes. You want the mushrooms to have a soft tender consistency. This can be checked by poking a fork through the mushroom, if the fork can penetrate the mushroom easily, then it's ready.

Place the roasted mushroom on toasted bread. Top with lettuce and arugula mix. Drizzle with olive oil. Can be served hot or cold.

Enjoy!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Stir fry from the garden

I made a stir fry with the chard I got from the garden. It was the first time I had chard and I must say it tasted better than I thought it would be. There was onions, chicken and red bell pepper.
Not much was added except olive oil, garlic and soy sauce.
I ate it with steamed rice and some garlic bread.

Bread Noobie

Last Tuesday I made bread from scratch. It was my first and second time making bread, I made two loafs. To state you need the basic ingredients:

Flour

Dry Yeast

Salt

Honey, can use sugar instead

Some eggs.

For fancier breads you can add herbs or other ingredients.

For normal white bread you must activate the yeast in ¼ cup of warm water and a teaspoon of honey or sugar. My first attempt of making bread I did wait, and the recipe I followed stated I needed more flour. I panicked so I added more water. DON’T PANIC because I added extra water the bread in the end tasted dry and very much like there was too much flour, so for the first timers out there just be calm and follow the recipe through.

Once the yeast is activated add a teaspoon of salt and slowly add ¼ cup of flour at a time. Mix well until the mixture is not sticky but not dry. There should still be some dampness to the dough. During this step you may add an egg if you like.

Now move the dough to the smooth counter top. Spread some flour on the counter so the bread doesn’t stick. Knead the dough for a good 10-15 minutes. Kneading for those that don’t know is simply flatting the dough to an oval shape, fold it towards you and then using the palm of you hand push the dough away from you. Once you have done that rotate it and repeat. The next step is to simply let is sit in a bowl for about an hour to an hour and a half.

Now that you have finished waiting you should preheat the oven. I did mine at 350 but you should double check for yours. The first attempt I did 375 for about 45 minutes, the bread was a bit burned on the bottom and a bit undone in the center so I adjusted it to 350 for about an hour the second time.

Deflate the dough, and while the oven is preheating knead the dough until the oven is ready. Place the dough in the oven. You can check if it is done by knocking on the bread, it should make a hallow sound.

Hold on before enjoying the fruits of your labor, set the bread on a cooling rack until it is cool on the outside, a cool is rack would be nice but if that’s not available try putting it an upside down plate or bowl so there’s the least amount of surface touching the bread.

The last step…you eat it .